Survival Tips - Part V
Qs. I am a 26 years old man who is deeply in love with my friend’s sister. But I am unable to express my feelings to her – could you please help?
Ans. Its good to know that being a man you have felt the ‘crazy lil’ thing called love’ ! …..for most men have never known of its existence only – since they were busy building empires and feeding their own egos !!
Now the question : why are you shying away from her?
Are you well settled in your profession?
Do you know of her living standards?
Can you give her all the material comforts that her father has provided her with?
Do you think that she may reject you because of your looks/height/color ?
Is caste, creed, culture coming between you and her?
What exactly is the reason – this you have to analyze yourself. One warning here – you must be able to provide her with all the material comforts that she is used to having – all – plus more is always welcome ! You see initially for a couple of weeks when you are enjoying the forbidden fruits – sex ie. its okay – but then you begin your daily life – if her comfort level is well maintained then its fine – but if not, then she will start nagging and irritating you – and a nagging wife is the worst curse that a man suffers !!
Ans. Its good to know that being a man you have felt the ‘crazy lil’ thing called love’ ! …..for most men have never known of its existence only – since they were busy building empires and feeding their own egos !!
Now the question : why are you shying away from her?
Are you well settled in your profession?
Do you know of her living standards?
Can you give her all the material comforts that her father has provided her with?
Do you think that she may reject you because of your looks/height/color ?
Is caste, creed, culture coming between you and her?
What exactly is the reason – this you have to analyze yourself. One warning here – you must be able to provide her with all the material comforts that she is used to having – all – plus more is always welcome ! You see initially for a couple of weeks when you are enjoying the forbidden fruits – sex ie. its okay – but then you begin your daily life – if her comfort level is well maintained then its fine – but if not, then she will start nagging and irritating you – and a nagging wife is the worst curse that a man suffers !!
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